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babybull82 | He's nice...he *seems* to be quite interested..but I'm just not feeling it. But why? Isn't Sun conjunct Mars supposed to be considered an aspect that creates sexual tension? It's just not happening for me here. Composite Synastry (I'm on the inside) |
SDragon | Just by looking at the synastry, it's not happening for me either! ;/ Kidding aside, Sun conj. Mars just means you feel energized around each other, doesn't mean it translates to sexual tension per se. Your Venus trine Mars would be more like that but less tension, just free flowing. Other than that, there's very little house overlays that help, nothing in your 5th house of romance, 8th house of sex, 7th house of partnership, though you have lots of planets in his 7th house so most likely he is more interested in you than the other way around. Also, with Venus in your 8th, like Venus in Scorpio, there's gotta be a bit of intensity which I don't think you get from him. His Pluto doesn't touch enough of your personal planets. |
Ceridwen | Your 5th house ruler is unaspected, which to me at least usually is a bad sign in terms of attraction. |
Seimei | In addition to whats has been said Sun square Saturn in composite in very inhibiting in my experience. ------------------ unspecified WORM |
babybull82 | Wow!! Thank you everyone for your feedback. Yes, intensity--spark that's what's missing. I like those kind of fatalistic crushes where you feel like you guys are going to die if you don't see each other lol Hmm, I do like him as a person and when we do finally get around to talking we have fun. Mercury conjunct Saturn is interesting..I find myself not feeling the urge to talk to him all the time and I feel like the conversations hit a lull a lot. He actually has this aspect natally. I notice that when we're texting he takes longer than most to reply because I think he's making sure to formulate just the right thing to say. My Uranus is conjuncting his Mars so even if I were to feel some sexual attraction at some point, it'd be on and off anyway. But he's sweet and he's actually offering me what I'm looking for (a stable relationship) *sigh*..but I mean if there is no sexual chemistry then there is no point really and I'm not one to string someone along as I've had it done to me and it sucks. You know what else too..when I look at this composite all I see is drama...Cancer sun, Scorpio moon.. sun square mars, sun square Pluto, mars conjunct Pluto, Saturn conjunct Pluto and then in the davison we have Sun square Mars (again) Sun square Pluto, moon opposite Pluto, Venus trine Pluto, Mars conjunct Pluto, Jupiter conjunct Pluto and Saturn conjunct Pluto...all of which those conjunctions reside in the 5th house. I don't think I've ever had that many Pluto conjunctions in one chart before. It would be interesting to see how a friendship played out with us. |
LexusVirgo | Sun mars creates attraction for the mars person from what I noticed |
Gabby | Venus square Neptune hurts, no tenderness to be felt, no mushy lovey emotions, just stress and frustration in love. |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: Sun mars creates attraction for the mars person from what I noticed
That's the thing, I'm the Mars person but I don't feel any attraction except on a friendship level. |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Venus square Neptune hurts, no tenderness to be felt, no mushy lovey emotions, just stress and frustration in love.
Don't get me started on this crappy aspect, I have it natally AND Neptune also squares my Moon and Mars as well..fun times! |
Aubyanne | You may not dig being MARS in that conjunction. I know that I've been the MARS, and sometimes, you'd just like to be the SUN. Let them do the chasing. Energetic or not, there's a thing as too much stimulation to the point of going, 'oh, no -- this again?' which can feel like a whole lotta nothin'. I second Ceri's pointing out the lack of the 5R being represented. A little something in that regard is nice. |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: You may not dig being MARS in that conjunction. I know that I've been the MARS, and sometimes, you'd just like to be the SUN. Let them do the chasing. Energetic or not, there's a thing as too much stimulation to the point of going, 'oh, no -- this again?' which can feel like a whole lotta nothin'. I second Ceri's pointing out the lack of the 5R being represented. A little something in that regard is nice.
You're right about chasing, like I can be the last one to send him a message and usually I'd expect a message back even if it's the next day or whatever. But nope!! We didn't talk for like 2 days and then he messages me saying that I've been quiet and I'm like..well I was waiting for you to respond to my last text. He goes well you can message me if you want after awhile.. but I don't want to be the one who always has to initiate. It's irritating. I don't make it a habit of chasing after men. If I message them and they don't reply then they won't be hearing from me again until the next time THEY initiate. |
SDragon | quote: Originally posted by babybull82: I don't make it a habit of chasing after men. If I message them and they don't reply then they won't be hearing from me again until the next time THEY initiate.
Duh! Isn't that obvious??!!? says the Taurus :-) |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by SDragon: Duh! Isn't that obvious??!!? says the Taurus :-)
Haha well it's only fair and I believe it's etiquette to text someone back after they've text you even if it's not right away. You shouldn't expect someone to always reach out to you especially when it's YOUR turn. |
hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: You may not dig being MARS in that conjunction. I know that I've been the MARS, and sometimes, you'd just like to be the SUN. Let them do the chasing. Energetic or not, there's a thing as too much stimulation to the point of going, 'oh, no -- this again?' which can feel like a whole lotta nothin'. I second Ceri's pointing out the lack of the 5R being represented. A little something in that regard is nice.
I have noticed that, like so much stimulation or attraction that it can be draining..like how you put it "oh this again" lol |
hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by babybull82: Haha well it's only fair and I believe it's etiquette to text someone back after they've text you even if it's not right away. You shouldn't expect someone to always reach out to you especially when it's YOUR turn.
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Gabby | quote: Originally posted by babybull82: Don't get me started on this crappy aspect, I have it natally AND Neptune also squares my Moon and Mars as well..fun times!
Ouch!! That does not sound fun at all! |
midnightvenus | IMO, it might be bc your personal planets aren't really activated by the Composite, with the exception of nMercury conjunct cASC and nVenus square cVenus.
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ail221 | Lack of relationship houses hit. Also Sun/Mars isn't always sexual imo sometimes it just makes for conflict or adding a competitive nature to things. |
babybull82 | Hmm..is he really that into it himself? I mean he could just be talking to me because he thinks I'm super interested in him. Libras are known to not want to hurt people's feelings. |
SDragon | quote: Originally posted by babybull82: Haha well it's only fair and I believe it's etiquette to text someone back after they've text you even if it's not right away. You shouldn't expect someone to always reach out to you especially when it's YOUR turn.
Taurus stellium here, no need to preach to the choir.. lol |